Thursday, 12 May 2022

Can I Have Sex During Fertility Treatment?

When patients inquire if they may have sex while undergoing fertility treatment, I always tell them to "listen to your body."

Let's speak about sex in this blog today; it's a part of our lives and necessary if you're serious about creating a family. Sexual intercourse is normally safe during ovarian stimulation, however many women who use injectable medicine for IUI or IVF may develop enlarged ovaries, making intercourse painful. There is an increased risk of ovarian torsion or ectopic pregnancy with larger ovaries and during IVF, and there are various circumstances where intercourse and ejaculation are not suggested to maximize the odds of success.

Having a semen analysis? Abstain for optimal sample

In most cases, a semen sample is taken for one of two reasons:

  • to assess the quality of the sperm
  • to prepare and utilise in an insemination during IUI, IVF, or donor egg therapy

When the male partner is asked to provide a sample for a semen assay, he must refrain from any type of ejaculation for two to five days prior to the

analysis to guarantee a full and trustworthy sample. Abstaining for longer than the specified time might have some detrimental consequences. Some patients go too far and abstain for much longer than five days, believing that this will result in the formation of new sperm cells. The fact is that waiting too long between ejaculations is truly harmful.

All treatment options, including IUI, IVF, and donor egg therapy, will require the collection of a semen sample to be utilised for insemination, with the exception of cycles requiring timed intercourse or donor sperm. It  recommended that you do not ejaculate the day before the insemination. If the pair has sexual relations too soon, the amount of ejaculate and sperm counts may be affected, resulting in a poor sample for IUI, but more on that later.

Sex during monitored Clomid cycle with timed intercourse

One of the most basic forms of treatment offered at the best IVF centre Shantah Fertility Centre is a monitored Clomid cycle with timed intercourse. The female patient takes an oral drug called Clomid to encourage ovulation during this therapy. A follicle forms and is expelled from the ovaries during ovulation, and the cycle is watched to ensure that this happens. The pair is told to have intercourse at home once ovulation has occurred. Due to the extremely vascular tissues of the female reproductive system, mild bleeding as a result of intercourse is relatively uncommon during any cycle. Hormonal stimulation and high oestrogen levels generated by the formation of numerous follicles promote this alteration in the female reproductive system.

We would suggest avoid intercourse if a patient is experiencing discomfort as a result of the bleeding. If bleeding during intercourse persists, patients should consult their doctor.

Sex during intrauterine insemination (IUI)

If a couple is undergoing IUI treatment, there are generally few restrictions when it comes to intercourse. The only instance where intercourse is strongly discouraged is the day following the “trigger shot.” The trigger shot allows eggs to reach final maturity and then be ovulated into the fallopian tubes. We generally encourage couples to have intercourse the night of the trigger shot. This ensures a supply of sperm in the fallopian tubes to meet the egg upon ovulation.

Abstinence from intercourse or ejaculation is suggested on the day between the trigger shot and the IUI or the day of the trigger shot if the IUI is planned for the next day. This break allows the sperm count to reaccumulate in order to produce a good sample for the IUI, which is usually scheduled approximately 36 hours after the trigger shot is given.

Intercourse is, however, suggested the evening following the IUI. This not only provides the couple time to be intimate, but it also may help increase the chances of fertilization by adding to the sperm that had been introduced during the insemination. Again, refraining from intercourse is suggested if the patient experiences pain during sex.

During some medicated IUI cycles, the female partner may produce too many follicles creating a concern that she potentially may ovulate too many eggs. This would place the couple at too great of a risk for a multiple pregnancy or higher order multiple pregnancy (triplets or higher) which is an unacceptable risk due to the complications to both mother and babies. When this occurs, the cycle is stopped and patients are asked to abstain from intercourse.

Sex during in vitro fertilization (IVF)

Sex during the early stimulation phase of an IVF cycle is acceptable as long as the couple is using a form of barrier contraceptive, such as a condom. In the event ovulation was to occur unexpectedly, especially from multiple follicles, we want to avoid the possibility of multiple pregnancy.

Later in stimulation the ovaries may start to significantly enlarge due to the growth of many follicles. As patients get closer, we tell them to avoid intercourse because the ovaries are very enlarged and cystic and we are concerned that intercourse could lead to rupture of a cyst on the enlarged ovaries or a twisting of the ovary on its blood supply, called ovarian torsion. This is extremely rare but abstaining from sex can help to avoid these types of complications.

Sex during post embryo transfer: IVF, FET, and donor egg treatment

Intercourse is discouraged following an embryo transfer during an IVF, FET, or donor egg cycle. This “pelvic rest” is recommended anywhere from five to seven days after transfer – when a pregnancy test can be reliably administered. This rest gives the embryo optimal time to implant into the uterine wall. Most IVF patients can resume normal sexual activity a week or two after their embryo transfer, but always check with your doctor or nurse prior.

Encouraging intimacy during treatment: what does intimacy really mean?

We often associate intimacy with sex, and while sex can be a way to achieve intimacy, it is not the only way. Rather, intimacy creates a sense of closeness, togetherness, and an emotional connection. People often express and receive intimacy in different ways. For couples, intimacy can encompass many different actions and moments, built over time through work and open discussion.

Whether through words or actions, intimacy involves a level of love, appreciation, and communication between partners. Sex, love,and intimacy are three different terms, and each can be expressed in different ways. How people connect goes beyond gender and becomes about personality.

Forbes lister and the best IVF specialist in India Dr.Anubha Singh heartily encourage patients not to lose sight of their relationship’s need for intimacy during fertility treatment. Intercourse is a normal part of a couple’s relationship and that you shouldn’t be embarrassed to talk with your physician about having sex during a fertility treatment cycle.

It’s stressful enough to go through infertility and then make the choice to enter treatment. I don’t want my patients to totally sacrifice their relationship. I tell them that they should not lose sight of the need to focus on their relationship and their lives—it’s easy to lose sight of everything in your life and let this consume your every thought. Many marriages and relationships can suffer—maintaining intimacy and communication is the key.

If you have any questions in your mind regarding IVF Treatment or any other infertility problem then please do let us know. ShantahFertility Centre is an award winning IVF centre and has a dedicated staffavailable at help in one go. You can call us on +91 11 41040956 or +919958466687 and you can also visit our Facebook page for more information. We are here to help you becoming parents.

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